There is seldom a bigger hindrance when you are on the first levels of "The Spiritual Path" than the "un-significant" other. Many times two people have paired up for a prolonged period and are now only together because of the amount of time they have been with each other. I overheard a person once say, "Well we have been together for 6 years and I owe it to try and make it work". When leaving this Earth there will be just you, unless your mate is on the same frequency/contrac